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This would be a big generalization, so just as any country, all people are different.So I will overly generalize from my experience: Since this is English-speaking Quora and majority of its users are white Americans, then I would assume you are White American.When two Chinese go on a first date, especially dates organized by their mothers or a coven of plotting ayis, it can be a fairly serious affair, even with children/families/marriage discussed in some cases. However, at least in America, we will go on dates with people we hardly even know/like for something interesting to do, a chance at an actual future together, and—this is important—the potential for a mutually-agreed upon sexual relationship.I’m not saying one is more preferable or better than the other, but when you are going on a date with a Chinese or foreign partner, you have to keep in mind how they might be viewing the encounter.But many Chinese-American women share the same complaints about the men who are interested in dating them.They're tired of being treated like "China dolls," or the stereotype that they're "exotic," and of the fact that some men seem more interested in their looks than their minds.
The heart of this issue comes from the fact that dating, relationships and sex in Western countries is far more casual than in China, even in bigger, more metropolitan cities like Beijing and Shanghai.
Increasingly, dating web sites offer chances for Chinese dating.
There are three main types of Chinese dating sites: Many American men are especially attracted to Asian women.
Chinese dating is just as confusing, and wonderful, as any other type of dating.
For Westerners, a willingness to learn about Chinese culture can make an interracial or international relationship stronger.