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These are all obvious flirting signs that we give away, even if we’re trying to be discreet or subtle about it.
Obvious flirting signs that count So the next time you’re having a conversation with someone attractive, watch out for these signs of flirting.
I don’t feel good saying it, but I handled it less than gracefully – I have no idea how exactly me not saying it back was interpreted by the woman, but of course it wasn’t good.
I’ve been asked if a woman “loses all her power” when she says “I love you” first.
In terms of the way that it feels to a guy when a girl says I love you first, well, it depends.
I can say from personal experience that there have been times it’s happened to me and I really did love the girl, but my life was a mess in other ways and wasn’t in the shape it needed to be in for an I-love-you type of relationship.
There’s a whole discussion in today’s culture about who has the power in the relationship and a bunch of other nonsense.
Does your new friend come really close to you now and then?
The reason being is that to us, the saying of it isn’t a big deal in it of itself.
In other words, to the grand majority of guys, he’s happy if the relationship is good. That’s not to say that guys don’t care, it’s just that if the relationship is going well in every way, we’re pretty much satisfied.
Reason being, if you think in terms of having the power in the relationship, you’re going to be making “power plays” and doing all sorts of screwy and weird stuff to try and protect yourself from losing this imagined power. As a result, the guy will be weirded out and he’ll distance himself and put up emotional and mental barriers to protect himself from manipulation.
With these walls up, he’ll be harder to reach and you’ll end up trying harder and harder to break through to him.